Monday, May 18, 2009

Bear's Last Post

JB here. I am sad to report, that this will be Bear's last post on my blog. These are the last pictures my mom took of Bear about 2 weeks ago, when my ex-step-daddy still let her come to check on Bear when he was traveling. He has now forbade my mom from caring for Bear. He has been very mean to my mom, and all mom wanted to do was help.

I give you, brother Bear......
2 weeks ago: Wheeeee, whoo hoo! Mom is here! Play ball with me.....pleeeeese????

Oh yeah, LOVE this little ball. It is SO much fun!

I popped it a little, but it is still SO much fun!

I like this really big ball too. I like to herd it!

Ooooh, mom, the scritches are just heavenly! Ooooh, a little more to the left. Don't stop, don't stop!

But then it was time for mom to go again.
Mom, please don't leave again. Please.....


JB here again. It has been very sad for us at my CatHouse. My ex-step-daddy has become very angry and hateful. Bitterness will eat you up, I say. Treat others, the way you want to be treated, because....
Life is too short.

Before you go, please sign my GUESTBOOK, and stop by my BIG WORLD too, thanks!

64 comments:

Khyra The Siberian Husky And Sometimes Her Mom said...

My mom is leaking fur you, Bear, and fur your mom...

It is already hard enough - why make it more painful?

Please purr some nice things to your mom from us!

Hugz&Khysses,
Khyra

Deetz said...

Life is very short and we should be thankful for each breathe we take..I wish Bear could come and live with us...My mum wants to give him scritches and Sharkie wants to play ball with him. I sure hope Bear is safe and finds a place where someone will treat him with love and kindness and not hatred and bitterness...
Deetzy

Abby said...

Hi, JB...

I am so sorry you & your Mom will not be able to see Bear anymore...

I know Bear will miss your Mom & you & Chester, too...

I don't know why humans try to hurt eachother...They should learn lessons from us...We give unconditional love & understanding & forgiveness...

Me & my Mom hope your Mom is OK...She is in our thoughts & prayers...

Abby xxxooo

Scottie the 'cutie' said...

So sorry to hear that we won't be getting updates about Bear =( Hope your Mom is faring well...she is in our thoughts too. Give her a big purr and lick for us, would you, JB?

Scottie

Angel said...

We are so sorry for your family! We know you and Mom will miss Bear and he will miss you. WE can only hope he will get the love and attention he needs to be a happy and healthy woolfie!

We are sending healing purrs for you all!

Pedro said...

JB,

Oh man, this is such disturbing news. Please tell your mom that we are sorry to hear this and we are thinking about her.

Pedro

Jan's Funny Farm said...

It is so hard to read this, as we know all your and Bear's hearts are heavy with sadness over this. We wish the angry man would give Bear to your mom so everyone could be happy and Bear would get loving attention. But if he's angry ....

We are sad for you, very sad.

Ludo van Doggy said...

Oh JB, you is making my Mum do big old leakies.
The same thing happened with my old Daddy too, at first he would come see me and Mum could go see my cat bro Pepe and rabbit-dog siblings but then he got real mean too and it still make Mum very sad. I know your Mom will be finding it very hard now and you must try and give her lots of support. I does not know why peoples has to be so mean.
~lickies, Ludo

ML said...

Mine heart is breaking for you, having to leave Bear.
We kitties will be purring and purraying that the man's cold heart will warm up.
Love & Purrs,
KC

Mango the Maltese kiddo said...

My mom cried like puppy when I asked her to read your sad post today about not seeing Bear anymore!
Bear, Your eyes in the last picture brought tears to all of us, our hearts melting from that innocent begging look: please stay mom, please don't go, please I'm so lonely here, I miss my JB and Chester...
You're right, Bear, life is too short, treasure every moment with your loved ones.
I'm one of them, you can count on me, Mango the Maltese kiddo!

Mo said...

That is so sad, the kids always suffer when the parents split up. Sorry that this man is so mean.
Sending *HUGS* and purrs.

~ The purries & Mo

The Creek Cats said...

We are very sad for you guys because this is a very sad situation. We know how much you guys and your mom love Bear and Bear loves you guys too.
We are sending you guys, Bear and your mom lots of hugs and comforting purrs.

the 4 Bs said...

we are so sad for Bear. we don't want him to go. we want to hear more from Bear and we don't want the humans to be so mean. Bear is such a nice boy and he's a dog too. poor Bear. poor us. poor JB. poor JB's mom.

sad woofs.

LUCKYLADY said...

I am so sorry for you maybe the mean man will change his mind after a time

PB 'n J said...

Awww, that is so sad. We sure hope that he will grow up and be nice again so that your Mom can go visit one day. :-(

Cat with a garden said...

We're in horror! And so sad for you! Your mom had such a hard year so far. We are sending our best strengthening purrs and positive vibes your way. It must be so horrible for all of you. Poor Bear too. We hope that with time things will normalize between the humans. Don't give up and be good to each other. We're thinking of you! Lots of love your way, Siena, Chilli and mom Britta.

Kitties @ Our family cat-a-blog... said...

We iz so sorry dat da 'beanz iz havin' issues an' dat da fur babiez iz gettin' caught in da middlez. My momma said she would just go an' bring Bear to her house if she ♥'ed him so much but our momma isn't alwayz right either...shhh...don't tell her we saidz dat.

Junior and Orion said...

Oh no....we hope that Bear is being taken good care of by that man. We will purr for all of you and Bear!

Molly and Taffy said...

JB

This is so sad. Why do hoomans have to be so silly and completely ignore what is best for us?

We do hope Bear has a good life.

Molly and Taffy

The Island Cats said...

We are so sad to hear this....Bear, we're gonna miss you...we sure hope that one day your mom will get to visit with you...

We're purraying for your mom and even for your dad, hoping that one day things will be better between them....

A virtual hug is coming your way...

Daisy said...

I am so sorry you all are having such a sad time. Mean peoples make me very upset. Soft purrs to you.

Zippy, Sadie and Speedy said...

We don't unnerstand beans sometimes...how can dey be so mean to each other and us! Give yoor mom some headbutts fur us and we'll purr dat da man's heart will soffen a little so dat yoor mom and bear don't hafta miss each other.

Fred said...

So sorry things are tough at your house! Hope everything is better soon.

VampyVictor said...

We just do not know why hoomans can get so mean, like what is the point?
They is only hurting themselves more on the insides holding so much hate.
Even momma does not understands.
We wish we could say something to make you all feel better, but we know we can't, but what we can do it send puurs to your x-dadda to maybe help him be not so mean anymore :))
V-V

Nina the Torbie said...

Oh, I think my comment got lost! I said I felt very sad for your mom and Bear. I don't know why people have to be so mean to each other. Give your mom some extra purrs and licks from us, please?
Purrs,
Nina & Victor

Poppy Q said...

We are feeling sad for your mom, as we know how much she loves that silly bear, and he will miss her lots.

Big hugs for your mom.

Mum and Poppy Q

Eduardo said...

Oh JB! I would bite youe ex-step-daddy on the butt real hard for being so mean but I don't want him to bite me back! I'm so sorry this has happened. My Mommy knows all about separation & what the other side will do to cause pain. Y'all are in my snuggles & my Mommy's prayers.
Hugs & Snugs,
Eduardo the Snuggle Puggle

Hana said...

We are sorry things did not work out. Hopefully things will get better for everyone!

Robyn and HotMBC aka The Hotties said...

Aw :( Dat is so sad. We's so sorry.
Purrrrrrrrrrrs,
Alla Us Hotties

Babs-beetle said...

I am so, so sorry about all this upset to all of you. Life, and people, can be cruel. I pray that it settles down soon and your mum can see bear again.

Furkidsmom said...

What a sad thing to happen. We never understand why people are so mean. Maybe someday your ex-step-daddy will have a change of heart.

Sniffie and the Florida Furkids

Tom, Tama-Chan and Sei-Chan said...

We were so very, very sad to read this post. We love Bear and we really are going to miss him, and we can imagine how sad your Mom feels. Please give her lots of extra love!

Gentle woofs and Purrs,
Tommy, Tama-Chan and Sei-Chan (and a hug from #1)

Asta said...

mommi and I cwied when we wead this. Why awe some hoomans so mean and huwtful. You'we wight JB, life is way too showt and it's tewwibly sad when someone behaves like that. I love Beaw and will miss seeing his sweet face and am vewy sad fow youw mom's huwt
I'm sending hew special healing smoochie kisses
so vewy sowwy
love
ASTA

Lacy said...

sad woofs, me iz sooo sad, y does our pawents want to hurt each other by using us...me not no what else to say...mayb mean ole ex-step-daddy will stop his tantrum and let ur mama and u kittys c Bear..we will miss him...mayb sum of us pups can dognap him and bring him back where he belongs...

a sad,
rocky
bear
angel lacylulu
and mama..

Teddy Bear said...

JB, we are so sad to hear this. We hope that you, your Mom, and Chester are doing ok. Life is TOO short to live with anger. We will definitely miss Bear too.

Love,
Teddy Bear

Hansel said...

we are very very leaky here. We are so sorry for all of you. Especially mom and bear. we just don't even know what to say, we are just so so so sad.

We love you all.

SophieKitty said...

I'm so sorry you guys are sad and having a hard time. Mean people suck! But remember, we all love you and wish you all the best. Purrs and headbutts.

Lorenza said...

Hi, JB!
I am so sad to know about how things are going with your ex-step-dad.
I hope he takes good care of Bear!
Please give your mom kisses and hugs from us!
Lorenza

Fin said...

We're so sorry to hear that. Hopefully he will change his mind. Sounds like he is just trying to make your Mom upset.

Huskee and Hershey said...

OMdoG.. this is terrible news.. the thought of your mommy not being able to spend time with Bear, the thought that we won't see his handsome pics on your blog...
We are really sorry for your poor mom, she must be so heart-broken.. (**hugs**).. hopefully your ex-step daddy will realise the mistake he made and will change his mind, for the sake of Bear at least!! I really hope he takes good care of Bear.. sigh...

Huskee and Hershey said...

Psst.. we have saved that last pic of Bear so that we'll never forget how he looks like (not that we will!!)...
If your mom does get the chance to see Bear, please please give him a hug from us.

Mickey,Georgia , Tillie said...

Oh JB, that is just too sad :(
It is not fair to you,Chester and your Mom and certainly not to Bear.
If only beans could be like us.
We are sending you,Chester,your Mom & Bear purrs & hugs!!!!!
Purrs Mickey,Georgia & Tillie

Sunny's Mommy said...

I'm so sorry. Your ex step dad is a very, very bad word! Hugs to you, your Mom, Chester and Bear.

:-(

Dewey Dewster said...

Geez JB...

Sorry ta hear about all yer family problems....but we're sendin' ya all lots of love 'n sloppy kisses and healin' thoughts.....ya all have been thru a lot after losin' yer sisters....now ta lose Bear too....maybe yer ex step-Dad will wake up 'n smell the roses...we sure hope so....

Dewey Dewster here.....

Cory said...

This is so sad...we can only hope that he gets over being angry so someday you can be with Bear again.

LC, Ayla, and Iza said...

Ex-step-daddy sounds mean!

Sweet Praline said...

Oh Bear, that makes my mom sad all over again. She said it brings back memories when her husband left and took their 17 year old cat, Muff with him. Mom never got to see Muff again and she died one month before their divorce 2 years later.

Special, special purrs to you and your mom!

Karen Jo said...

I am so very sorry that your Mom won't be able to see Bear any more. It just seems like such a spiteful thing to do. I don't understand it. I hope that Bear will be well cared for. Hugs to all of you, especially Mom and Bear.

cwcwccw said...

JB purrs and hugs to your mom.

joanne, jane, jill, johnny, jasmine, jay boy & capu

MISS PEACH ~(^.^)~ said...

Oh JB I am so sorry you and mommy are so sad over Bear. This is a heart breaking thing to go through. We will purrrr for the softening of his heart...the kids always suffer so much in a break up.
We wish we could wave a magic wand and fix it all for you...but for now please know how much we care about you.
Love Miss Peach and mommy Karla

Tracey and Huffle said...

I am very sad for all of you. I will miss Bear and his cute face. I hope your mum will be okay eventually.

Huffle Mawson and her mum

Kaz's Cats said...

JB, We're sorry that your Mom won't get to see Bear any more. We'd like to believe that someday things will improve and your Mom can see Bear again. In the meantime, we're purring for you guys, and we hope that Bear will be well looked after.

{{{hugs}}}

Gypsy & Tasha

Dino and Family said...

Oh dear, JB! I am sorry to hear that! Big hugs to you and your family. Those are some excellent pics of Bear, take comfort that you had some wonderful time together. Love, Dino

Lorianna said...

Oh JB, my heart is breaking for you and Bear and for your Mom. This is just so sad... Such a sweet dog.
Your Mom is lucky she got away from such a mean and angry man. I just wish Bear didn't have to be left alone. This must hurt your Mom's heart so much!
I'm sending lots of loving healing thoughts to your Mom and for Bear and Chester and you Jelly Bean.
Take care dear ones,
Hugs,
Lorianna

Clover said...

Hi JB,
I have not been by in a while, and I am so sorry to read your sad news. It is so hard to understand humans sometimes, especially mean ones.
I am sending big hugs and kisses out to you and your mom, and Chester, and some for Bear too - I will miss seeing his sweet furry face.
Love Clover xo

Goldie, Shade and Banshee said...

We are just getting caught up, what a horror story. That is so sad and are hearts are breaking for your poor mom. It is so strange how someone you love and think you know can change into someone unrecognizable. We are sending comforting purrs. We will miss Bear's sweet face.

Purrs Goldie, Shade and Banshee

Grrreta said...

We hope your ex-step-daddy reconsiders his decision. I know Bear misses your mom a lot. We hope they can work out a way that she can still visit Bear. We're sending lots of kitty hugs to your mom and Bear.

bbes tribe said...

Bear is so handsome. We are so sorry to hear about the trouble. We have heard our M & D say that we (the pets in their lives) give unconditional love and don't hold grudges. Too bad humans can't learn lessons from us(in our case dogs).
Ernie & Sasha

Bae Bae said...

Oh dear..
That's very sad news... I hope your ex-step-daddy will change his mind over time..
We'll miss Bear too

~ Bae

Parker said...

How awful!
Mean people suck!
We send our hugs to your Mommy!

Rambo said...

Awww JB. I feel sorry for Bear. Stuck with the mean step-dad. You must be happy you don't have to live with him.
Isn't your step-dad a pilot?? Maybe the fluctuation in altitudes are making his brain go wacky.
Does this mean you won't get to see Bear anymore??
love,
Rambo

Mickey,Georgia , Tillie said...

How are you guys holding up??
We hope you are OK.
{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS)))))))))))))))
Purrs Mickey,Georgia & Tillie

Anita said...

Be happy Bear.

Purrrs and kisses.

Jemma the Chihuahua said...

We are so sorry to hear this. We hope Bear will be loved and happy.

Hope everything is okay with you and your meowmy, JB.